Welcome to the Author Q & A

This space was created to answer common questions about Unbound, its themes, and the personal journey that inspired it. As I’ve shared in blog posts, writing this story was both a creative endeavor and a deeply personal experience. It reflects my truth—drawn from lived experience, shaped through fiction, and shared with care. If you’ve read the book and found yourself curious about what was included, what wasn’t, or why certain choices were made, I hope you’ll find clarity here. And if you still have questions, feel free to reach out through the contact page or join the blog discussion—I welcome thoughtful dialogue.

Is Unbound based on your real life?

Unbound is a work of fiction inspired by my lived experiences. While some characters and events are drawn from real life, they've been fictionalized, dramatized, and adapted to serve the story's emotional arc. I changed names, created composite characters, and focused on a specific chapter of my journey--one of escape, identity, and love. It's not a memoir, but it is deeply personal.

Are the characters in Unbound based on real people?

Yes, most of the characters are inspired by real people from my life. That said, every character in Unbound was fictionalized to some extent—names were changed, details adjusted, and scenes dramatized to serve the story. This allowed me to honor the emotional truth of my experiences while respecting the privacy and complexity of the individuals involved.

The Kramer family, for instance, reflects a very real and formative part of my journey. But even their portrayal was written with care, intention, and a blend of truth and fiction that allowed the narrative to unfold honestly without becoming a memoir. Unbound is, at its core, a fictionalized story rooted in my lived experience—not a literal account.

If Unbound is fiction, how much of it is actually true—and does that blur the line between honesty and storytelling?

That’s a question I’ve been asked a lot—and I think it’s an important one.

Unbound is fiction, but it’s fiction inspired by real emotion, real moments, and real growth. I’ve always been upfront about that. I chose to tell this story through a fictional lens because I wanted the freedom to explore the truth of my experience—not just the facts of my life. That’s the heart of what fiction can do: it lets you capture the emotional reality, the internal battles, and the personal truths in a way that sometimes pure autobiography cannot.

Every scene in Unbound was crafted with intention. Some moments are drawn closely from life, others are dramatized or reimagined to serve the narrative arc. But the emotional core—the struggle for identity, the fear, the longing, the hope—that’s all deeply real. That’s mine.

Fiction gave me the space to process, reflect, and create something that I hope resonates with others who’ve faced similar questions about who they are, how to escape pain, and how to find love. I don’t claim this story is the only truth. But it is my truth, told in the way that felt most honest to me.

One review on Amazon and Goodreads accuses the book of being dishonest. How do you respond?

Unbound is my truth--told through my lens, shaped by my experiences, and rooted in my emotional journey. I've never claimed it to be anyone else's story. Like many works of fiction inspired by real life, it reflects how I processed and survived difficult moments, not how others may have seen them.

Every memory carries perspective. What we choose to share, what we leave behind, and how we interpret the past are all part of personal storytelling. That doesn't make it dishonest--it makes it human.

No one gets to tell you how to tell your story.

This story was written with honesty, care, and deep introspection. It's not meant to offer an objective record, but rather a heartfelt reflection of identity, healing, and growth. For anyone who's ever struggled to live openly and authentically, I hope Unbound offers comfort, connection, and courage.

Why did you choose to leave out certain parts of your life, like your marriage or having children?

That's a thoughtful question--and a fair one. The short answer is: Unbound was never intended to tell the full story of my life. It's a deeply personal, emotionally driven narrative that focuses on one very specific journey: my path to escape, self-acceptance, and love. It's not a memoir of everything I've lived--it's a story about the emotional and psychological transformation I experienced.

Yes, my marriage and children were part of my life during that time. But thematically, they belonged to another chapter--another arc entirely. Including them would have added layers that didn't serve the story I was telling here. I wanted this book to stay focused on one central truth: what it felt like to live in silence, to slowly find the courage to live authentically, and to finally experience a kind of love I'd long denied myself.

I chose to write Unbound as fiction based on my lived experiences, which gave me space to craft the emotional arc without the burden of documenting every fact. That's not avoidance--it's storytelling. And I stand by that choice because it allowed me to go deeper into the heart of the journey I was ready to share.

Don’t you think your journey was a selfish one, especially since you admitted to leaving a marriage and children?

I understand why it may appear that way. And I don’t run from that perception. But the truth is—staying in a life where I was emotionally buried and living inauthentically would have caused more harm than good, not just to me, but to my family as well. I wasn’t leaving them—I was leaving a version of myself that was breaking down, quietly and painfully.

That decision wasn’t made lightly. It was made after years of inner conflict, reflection, and heartbreak. And as difficult as it was, I believed— and still believe—that choosing to live truthfully was the best path forward for everyone involved. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is stop pretending.

From the moment I walked out of the family home, my children and I maintained an unbreakable bond. That connection has only deepened over the years. In fact, my kids have often said how lucky they feel to have had four parents after their mother and I each remarried. But what’s stayed with me most is something they’ve echoed time and again: their lives are happy because their parents were happy. And that, to me, says everything.

How did you decide what to fictionalize and what to keep close to real life?

I chose emotional truth over literal retelling. That meant blending real events, feelings, and relationships with fictionalized scenes or composite characters to serve the story’s arc. This allowed me to protect privacy while still honoring the essence of what I lived through.

Have your loved ones read the book? What has their reaction been?

Some have, and their reactions have varied—just as you’d expect with something so personal. Unbound was never meant to speak for anyone but me. My intention was to tell a specific story from my own lens, rooted in emotional truth. Those who understand that have shown incredible support and compassion.

What do you hope readers take away from Unbound?

More than anything, I hope readers feel seen. Whether you’ve struggled with identity, felt trapped by expectations, or longed for a life that felt more true, this book is meant to hold space for that journey. If Unbound helps even one person feel less alone or more courageous in their truth, then it’s done its job.

Will you write a follow-up to Unbound—one that includes other parts of your life?

I’ve thought about it. There are certainly more chapters to explore—including family, parenting, and finding peace after the storm. But for now, I’m focused on telling different stories that still echo those same themes of identity, love, and resilience. Never say never, though.